錫住我啲朋友嚟用

鄺頌晴 Chung Ching Kwong
2 min readMay 30, 2019

呢幾日時不時有人問我願唔願意做聯署發起人,或者問我「點解你仲未做ABCDE」。其實我今日先啱啱考完兩個法律考試,過去嘅兩星期如非必要都盡量足不出戶讀書,壓力好大。讀書考試如期畢業一定係我而家最優先嘅事。而香港嘅事,唔係唔重要,只係唔係最優先。

有個好強烈嘅感覺係身邊有一部份人,都會好期待一啲大家比較熟悉嘅面孔去帶頭做一啲嘢。因為有一群人做慣做熟,一向都係佢哋做,所以理所當然地覺得一樣都係由佢哋做。但呢一班熟手技工,其實每一個都曾經係一張白紙,都係唔識未試過。只係佢哋基於唔同嘅原因,覺得唔對路,覺得個社會有問題,想改變想見到個地方變好,於是膽粗粗去做,慢慢就變成大家熟悉嘅面孔。

如果你會問人「點解未做ABCDE」,如果你覺得有啲嘢應該要出現而遲遲未見蹤影,其實你可以去做。

有啲位我知道會有好多顧慮,熟悉嘅面孔好多時都唔介意攬上身,橫掂個底都花晒,咪落自己個名。但要佢哋攬上身,唔好要佢哋做得咁辛苦好無?如果你係想做嘢但怕上身,咁你可以drraft好一份聯署、準備好一啲需要嘅嘢,然後用熟悉面孔嘅名字。越多人做,越多人願意做,對每一個人嚟講風險就越低,呢個道理應該個個都知道架。

我覺得有一樣嘢好可怕,有啲人會覺得你一旦試過拋個身出嚟做,你以後就要做落去。以後,你就要有責任一直follow落去,唔可以有其他優先嘅事。但咁樣唔係大家最討厭嘅大台同老屎忽咩,唔係一直都講緊群眾自發咩。點解要問「你點解唔去做ABCDE」「XXX去咗邊」「佢唔上水好過分」。

關心社會係應有之義,唔係一小撮人嘅責任或者義務。眼見好多朋友其實為咗生活或者學業疲於奔命,都仲要捱更抵夜去攪咁多嘢,好心痛架。

自己身在異地,見到同窗舊友放工之後去開站,開站嗌咪嗌到失聲,然後仲有精力同我商量點樣幫母校啲師弟妹設計文宣,啲字點寫好,都唔好意思話自己考完試呢邊夜晚時間要訓覺,快手起埋貨先去訓覺。

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鄺頌晴 Chung Ching Kwong
鄺頌晴 Chung Ching Kwong

Written by 鄺頌晴 Chung Ching Kwong

貓老母。 IPAC高級分析員。 現於漢堡大學攻讀法律博士,研究個人資料保護/digital rights。所有內容均為個人意見。

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